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Thursday, May 10, 2012
A litle bit of advice...
Okay, so here is why I made this blog. Here is where you post your comments and ask me whatever you would like. Also, if you would just like to talk, go for it. I'm all ears. =]
Say you love someone and have been with them for a long time and your family thinks they are the worst person in the world. And they are not they do have bad moments but not all bad. how do you change your family's point of view?
An opinion is something that is quite hard to change. There is nothing you can SAY to your family to convince them that your significant other is not what they think. One suggestion I would make would be to have your family each individually spend some one on one time with this person. That way they can see the person for who they really are rather than who they believe they are. Also something else to keep in mind is that happiness in a relationship is to be between the two in the relationship. Your family may not necessarily approve of your significant other, you should seek some level of acceptance. Get the point across to them that this person makes you happy and you don't want anyone else. Also, do not discount the things your family says about this person as well. Sometimes love can be blinding to the obvious and we may overlook the things the family sees. So don't be so close-minded to their observations, but also make sure that they know you are happy and that your happiness is what should be most important.
Say you love someone and have been with them for a long time and your family thinks they are the worst person in the world. And they are not they do have bad moments but not all bad. how do you change your family's point of view?
ReplyDeleteAn opinion is something that is quite hard to change. There is nothing you can SAY to your family to convince them that your significant other is not what they think. One suggestion I would make would be to have your family each individually spend some one on one time with this person. That way they can see the person for who they really are rather than who they believe they are. Also something else to keep in mind is that happiness in a relationship is to be between the two in the relationship. Your family may not necessarily approve of your significant other, you should seek some level of acceptance. Get the point across to them that this person makes you happy and you don't want anyone else. Also, do not discount the things your family says about this person as well. Sometimes love can be blinding to the obvious and we may overlook the things the family sees. So don't be so close-minded to their observations, but also make sure that they know you are happy and that your happiness is what should be most important.
DeleteThanks thats great advice you are really good at this!
ReplyDeleteThank you. I hope I have helped you.
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